Real women, real change
Stories from the THS Community
Women just like you who found their way back to peace, purpose, and the home they always wanted.
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Valerie, mom of 3 (youngest 4 months), homeschooler, recently moved states away from family. Before: ‘hurry sickness,’ tunnel vision on tasks, frantic rushing, waking up angry, mood swings with no identifiable trigger (‘it’s 10am and life is horrible’), felt out of control, wanted to hide her struggles out of shame, felt she needed ‘a month away’ to reach baseline. Found Kyrie’s channel randomly (considers it answered prayer), felt comfort and friendship from the vulnerability.
Decided if she was getting this much from free videos, investing in the course would go deeper. Since joining (about 2 months): found a baseline she didn’t know she could operate in, no longer waking up angry, embracing slow pace, enjoying small moments, giving herself grace and permission to rest, cast out ‘hurry sickness.’ Key insight: ‘If you slow down, then you actually allow yourself to feel the small joys.’ Advice to others: ‘There’s not much to lose… if there’s a nudge, just listen to that.’
Valerie, mom of 3 (youngest 4 months), homeschooler, recently moved states away from family. Before: ‘hurry sickness,’ tunnel vision on tasks, frantic rushing, waking up angry, mood swings with no identifiable trigger (‘it’s 10am and life is horrible’), felt out of control, wanted to hide her struggles out of shame, felt she needed ‘a month away’ to reach baseline. Found Kyrie’s channel randomly (considers it answered prayer), felt comfort and friendship from the vulnerability.
Decided if she was getting this much from free videos, investing in the course would go deeper. Since joining (about 2 months): found a baseline she didn’t know she could operate in, no longer waking up angry, embracing slow pace, enjoying small moments, giving herself grace and permission to rest, cast out ‘hurry sickness.’ Key insight: ‘If you slow down, then you actually allow yourself to feel the small joys.’ Advice to others: ‘There’s not much to lose… if there’s a nudge, just listen to that.’
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When Valerie joined Transformed Homemakers Society, she was a mother of three – her youngest just four months old – living in a swirl of chaos, overstimulation, and self-doubt…Through the course, Valerie began to understand what was really happening beneath the surface – a nervous system constantly running on overdrive.
As she learned to renew her mind and rewire her responses biblically, she found something she didn’t even know she was missing: a baseline of peace. Today, she describes her life as slower, steadier, and filled with grace.
When Valerie joined Transformed Homemakers Society, she was a mother of three – her youngest just four months old – living in a swirl of chaos, overstimulation, and self-doubt…Through the course, Valerie began to understand what was really happening beneath the surface – a nervous system constantly running on overdrive.
As she learned to renew her mind and rewire her responses biblically, she found something she didn’t even know she was missing: a baseline of peace. Today, she describes her life as slower, steadier, and filled with grace.
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Diana, in the course for about 4 months, describes her transformation in a video interview with Kyrie. Before: no clarity of mind, no energy, overwhelm, questioning her purpose, lack of self-control in speech and behavior, impatience, back discomfort, fear, anxiety, feeling inadequate. Had been searching for help since teenage years; tried talking therapies, online psychology courses (English, American, Russian), tapping therapy over FaceTime.
Realized it had to be ‘a godly way.’ Found Kyrie’s YouTube, tried free workshop, ‘that’s when I knew.’ Since joining: responds to triggers calmly, ‘scary mommy loud voice is gone,’ chooses words carefully, encourages husband to choose positive words too, focuses on connection over home tasks, shows respect to husband in front of children, husband calms down quicker, they are now ‘solution orientated than problem orientated,’ started reading the Bible together daily (started with 5-minute timer).
Husband went from skeptical (‘are you sure you want another course?’) to fully supportive with high regard for Kyrie’s guidance. Diana calls it ‘the biggest blessing in my life’ and ‘an answer to prayer.’
Diana, in the course for about 4 months, describes her transformation in a video interview with Kyrie. Before: no clarity of mind, no energy, overwhelm, questioning her purpose, lack of self-control in speech and behavior, impatience, back discomfort, fear, anxiety, feeling inadequate. Had been searching for help since teenage years; tried talking therapies, online psychology courses (English, American, Russian), tapping therapy over FaceTime.
Realized it had to be ‘a godly way.’ Found Kyrie’s YouTube, tried free workshop, ‘that’s when I knew.’ Since joining: responds to triggers calmly, ‘scary mommy loud voice is gone,’ chooses words carefully, encourages husband to choose positive words too, focuses on connection over home tasks, shows respect to husband in front of children, husband calms down quicker, they are now ‘solution orientated than problem orientated,’ started reading the Bible together daily (started with 5-minute timer).
Husband went from skeptical (‘are you sure you want another course?’) to fully supportive with high regard for Kyrie’s guidance. Diana calls it ‘the biggest blessing in my life’ and ‘an answer to prayer.’
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Amanda lives in Chicagoland with her husband of 11 years and their two beautiful daughters. Nearly five years ago, both of her girls were diagnosed with a rare, always-fatal neurodegenerative brain disease – an unimaginable weight that reshaped every part of her life.
A former career woman, Amanda found herself overwhelmed by medical motherhood, survival mode, and the constant pressure of managing a home while living in repeated trauma. Through the Transformed Homemaker Society, Amanda discovered practical tools rooted in both Scripture and the science of neuroplasticity. She has learned how to set down survival mode, respond with peace instead of outbursts, and extend grace in everyday frustrations.
Amanda lives in Chicagoland with her husband of 11 years and their two beautiful daughters. Nearly five years ago, both of her girls were diagnosed with a rare, always-fatal neurodegenerative brain disease – an unimaginable weight that reshaped every part of her life.
A former career woman, Amanda found herself overwhelmed by medical motherhood, survival mode, and the constant pressure of managing a home while living in repeated trauma. Through the Transformed Homemaker Society, Amanda discovered practical tools rooted in both Scripture and the science of neuroplasticity. She has learned how to set down survival mode, respond with peace instead of outbursts, and extend grace in everyday frustrations.
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I honestly didn’t realize how bad things were for a long time. I just thought the anger and overstimulation were normal and would joke about it with my mom friends lol. I’d been dealing with chronic migraines since 5th grade, gut issues, tension everywhere — I just thought that was life.
A dear friend told me about the course after she’d been healing from pelvic floor tension and I was like… wait, WHAT. You can actually feel better?? I took the free workshop first and something just clicked for me. I finally purchased the full course and honestly, if I knew then what I know now, I would have paid triple.
I have not had a single migraine in 4 months. I used to get nerve block injections — like 15 shots in my head and traps every single month — and I haven’t needed them since January. I also noticed one day that I could touch my neck muscles and they weren’t rock hard anymore. And I’m 6 months postpartum and I can eat dairy again, which never happens for me lol. The healing has been slow and non-linear but it’s the things I wasn’t even expecting that have blown me away the most. This isn’t a quick fix — it’s a lifelong tool and I am so grateful. All praise to God!
I honestly didn’t realize how bad things were for a long time. I just thought the anger and overstimulation were normal and would joke about it with my mom friends lol. I’d been dealing with chronic migraines since 5th grade, gut issues, tension everywhere — I just thought that was life.
A dear friend told me about the course after she’d been healing from pelvic floor tension and I was like… wait, WHAT. You can actually feel better?? I took the free workshop first and something just clicked for me. I finally purchased the full course and honestly, if I knew then what I know now, I would have paid triple.
I have not had a single migraine in 4 months. I used to get nerve block injections — like 15 shots in my head and traps every single month — and I haven’t needed them since January. I also noticed one day that I could touch my neck muscles and they weren’t rock hard anymore. And I’m 6 months postpartum and I can eat dairy again, which never happens for me lol. The healing has been slow and non-linear but it’s the things I wasn’t even expecting that have blown me away the most. This isn’t a quick fix — it’s a lifelong tool and I am so grateful. All praise to God!
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Lauren came into the course assuming her overwhelm, anger, and physical symptoms were just part of normal life. She had lived for years with chronic migraines (since 5th grade), tension, gut issues, dairy intolerance, and constant overstimulation, never realizing ‘it didn’t have to be like that.’ A friend told her about pelvic floor tension relief, which led her to the course. She initially tried to ‘willpower’ her way through just the free workshop before purchasing the full course.
After working through the material: no migraine in 4 months (previously needed monthly nerve block injections, 15 shots each time, 1.5 hour drive); neck/trap muscles no longer feel like rocks; bowel movements without pain for the first time; mosquito bites no longer cause massive welts (lifelong reaction now normal); dairy intolerance resolved (6 months postpartum). She can tell when she hasn’t been consistent with coursework because symptoms start to return. Says ‘If I knew now what I knew then, I probably would have paid triple for the course.’ And: ‘I wish that every single woman in my life would take this.’
Lauren came into the course assuming her overwhelm, anger, and physical symptoms were just part of normal life. She had lived for years with chronic migraines (since 5th grade), tension, gut issues, dairy intolerance, and constant overstimulation, never realizing ‘it didn’t have to be like that.’ A friend told her about pelvic floor tension relief, which led her to the course. She initially tried to ‘willpower’ her way through just the free workshop before purchasing the full course.
After working through the material: no migraine in 4 months (previously needed monthly nerve block injections, 15 shots each time, 1.5 hour drive); neck/trap muscles no longer feel like rocks; bowel movements without pain for the first time; mosquito bites no longer cause massive welts (lifelong reaction now normal); dairy intolerance resolved (6 months postpartum). She can tell when she hasn’t been consistent with coursework because symptoms start to return. Says ‘If I knew now what I knew then, I probably would have paid triple for the course.’ And: ‘I wish that every single woman in my life would take this.’
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Camille was relying on her own abilities to try and be the homemaker, wife, and mom God has called her to be. She began to suffer from insomnia, weight loss, and severe anxiety. Camille started the THS course and in three months God has done a wonderful work! She’s gaining weight, sleeping through the night, and has a true peace. Watch her testimony, and see how God used THS to transform her life!
Camille was relying on her own abilities to try and be the homemaker, wife, and mom God has called her to be. She began to suffer from insomnia, weight loss, and severe anxiety. Camille started the THS course and in three months God has done a wonderful work! She’s gaining weight, sleeping through the night, and has a true peace. Watch her testimony, and see how God used THS to transform her life!
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Victoria came into the Transformed Homemaker Society overwhelmed, overstimulated, and struggling with anger. She had always dreamed of being a patient, loving mother, but found herself exhausted, reacting instead of responding to her children, and weighed down by anxiety.
She had tried everything – diets, exercise plans, and natural remedies – hoping something would help her feel better. But it wasn’t until she joined the course that everything changed. Almost immediately, she noticed a dramatic increase in energy…Over time, she began to notice a major shift.
Situations that used to set her off no longer had the same power over her…Victoria told me that this course has helped her more than any supplement, therapy, or strategy she had tried before.
Victoria came into the Transformed Homemaker Society overwhelmed, overstimulated, and struggling with anger. She had always dreamed of being a patient, loving mother, but found herself exhausted, reacting instead of responding to her children, and weighed down by anxiety.
She had tried everything – diets, exercise plans, and natural remedies – hoping something would help her feel better. But it wasn’t until she joined the course that everything changed. Almost immediately, she noticed a dramatic increase in energy…Over time, she began to notice a major shift.
Situations that used to set her off no longer had the same power over her…Victoria told me that this course has helped her more than any supplement, therapy, or strategy she had tried before.
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It’s just been life-changing for me…I went from being kind of like sad, kind of like forcing the wins on paper to like I feel awesome about this…I was just crying to my husband because I had gotten so angry that day…After doing this, it’s amazing. It’s like a complete night and day difference…
The tension just like melted away once I started doing this work…The biggest one is just the genuine joy that I feel every single day now…I wake up excited every single day to be a mom and to do the job that he’s given me…Anger feels like a thing of the past…My food intolerances are disappearing…It has truly been life-changing.
It’s just been life-changing for me…I went from being kind of like sad, kind of like forcing the wins on paper to like I feel awesome about this…I was just crying to my husband because I had gotten so angry that day…After doing this, it’s amazing. It’s like a complete night and day difference…
The tension just like melted away once I started doing this work…The biggest one is just the genuine joy that I feel every single day now…I wake up excited every single day to be a mom and to do the job that he’s given me…Anger feels like a thing of the past…My food intolerances are disappearing…It has truly been life-changing.
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I wanted to share my experience just in the first few days. I went through the first exercises with making my I am statement and writing through some what ifs/even ifs…It changed EVERYTHING! My mind kept going back to how I planned to show up and it helped soooo much! I was shocked and sooo happy!
I was able to bring myself back to that calm, grounded state over and over and get through the day feeling more energized and capable of doing this work that God called me to.
I wanted to share my experience just in the first few days. I went through the first exercises with making my I am statement and writing through some what ifs/even ifs…It changed EVERYTHING! My mind kept going back to how I planned to show up and it helped soooo much! I was shocked and sooo happy!
I was able to bring myself back to that calm, grounded state over and over and get through the day feeling more energized and capable of doing this work that God called me to.
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Elena Jensen, 27-year-old pastor’s wife and mom to a 16-month-old, describes her full transformation in a video interview with Kyrie. Before: crippling anxiety, depression, energy crashes, anger (new since motherhood), overstimulation, burnout, digestive health decline (food intolerances growing), jaw tension, shoulder tension, pelvic floor pain. Tried therapy, integrative medicine doctor, supplements (made her worse), pelvic floor PT for 9 months (zero progress).
Found Kyrie’s YouTube video the night before a doctor appointment, did the free workshop, sent Kyrie a long email with questions. Husband was supportive after seeing free workshop results and reading testimonials. About 1.5 months in she noticed the shift. By 3 months: genuine daily joy, strengthened walk with God, anger ‘feels like a thing of the past,’ calm responses come naturally, jaw tension gone, pelvic floor issues resolved, food intolerances disappearing (ate 6+ previously intolerable foods with zero problems). She initially told a friend ‘I haven’t had one of those major transformation stories’ then realized as she listed everything that she absolutely does. Her advice: ‘Don’t wait. Just do it.’
Elena Jensen, 27-year-old pastor’s wife and mom to a 16-month-old, describes her full transformation in a video interview with Kyrie. Before: crippling anxiety, depression, energy crashes, anger (new since motherhood), overstimulation, burnout, digestive health decline (food intolerances growing), jaw tension, shoulder tension, pelvic floor pain. Tried therapy, integrative medicine doctor, supplements (made her worse), pelvic floor PT for 9 months (zero progress).
Found Kyrie’s YouTube video the night before a doctor appointment, did the free workshop, sent Kyrie a long email with questions. Husband was supportive after seeing free workshop results and reading testimonials. About 1.5 months in she noticed the shift. By 3 months: genuine daily joy, strengthened walk with God, anger ‘feels like a thing of the past,’ calm responses come naturally, jaw tension gone, pelvic floor issues resolved, food intolerances disappearing (ate 6+ previously intolerable foods with zero problems). She initially told a friend ‘I haven’t had one of those major transformation stories’ then realized as she listed everything that she absolutely does. Her advice: ‘Don’t wait. Just do it.’
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Lindsey, a mother of four, describes her old self as “a monster” whose day depended on how well her kids behaved or how much she slept the night before or any number of variables. Her moods and reactions were a highly volatile gamble. Lindsey didn’t like who she was and knew she desperately needed a change. Through the loving hand of Jesus and her husband gifting her the Transformed Homemakers Society Course, Lindsey has been able to find joy, peace, and transformation. Watch her powerful testimony!
Lindsey, a mother of four, describes her old self as “a monster” whose day depended on how well her kids behaved or how much she slept the night before or any number of variables. Her moods and reactions were a highly volatile gamble. Lindsey didn’t like who she was and knew she desperately needed a change. Through the loving hand of Jesus and her husband gifting her the Transformed Homemakers Society Course, Lindsey has been able to find joy, peace, and transformation. Watch her powerful testimony!
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I just wanted to say we’re not even halfway through the course this month and there has already been a tremendous change in my attitude and literally everything around me… my husband can already see a dramatic change in me- he told me the other day that he doesn’t feel like he’s on “pins and needles” around me anymore when moments get intense with the kids or things start feeling a little hectic (like typical life with children is bound to do). And guess what? My wonderful, loving, handsome and amazing husband has been saying things to ME like “you’re so cute”, “you’re such a cute mom”, and calling me “beautiful” way more just in this past week than he has all year! So I know he not only sees the transformation but he feels it too because it’s creating more of an inclination in him to express adoration toward me again that I haven’t heard much of from him since we started having children and since in turn I then became a frantic, nervous ball of stress and defeat.
My children definitely feel a difference too… both of them are running up to me and throwing their arms around me for huge hugs WAY more often, saying the words “I love you, Mama” out of nowhere WAY more often, and even asking God for “Mama dreams” when they lay their sweet little heads down at night and say their prayers. They are laughing way more and are overall more playful because I’M laughing more and am more playful. Their behaviors and overall demeanor and emotions are even much milder now because they have a calm, rational, gentle mother who finally feels like her fun-loving, level-headed self again!
When I came across your channel a few years ago, I would take notes from your videos here and there but couldn’t quite grasp how to fully immerse myself and gear my everyday life around your teachings. Until I found myself truly snapping a couple of times at my poor, precious little toddlers (over silly, forgivable toddler things- like drawing on the wall w/ crayon and stringing a whole roll of toilet paper across the living room floor) and from that moment there I knew I HAD to make a change NOW and I was done going around in fight or flight and hyper-vigilant all the time. I also knew it was time when one day about a month ago, my husband got home from work and while I was changing my baby’s diaper on the floor in the living room when he bent down to kiss me, I broke down in tears saying “I hate this feeling so much… I feel like I can’t even enjoy my children or my motherhood right now. It’s. Just. So. Freakin. Hard. And I’m so so sooooo tired.”
Anyway, fast forward to not long afterward when I came across your post about children being little emotional barometers, that was my little a-ha moment that I should give you a closer listen. Because I knew I did NOT want to be setting a negative, “poor me, life sucks” tone in my household for my children! (Or in front of my amazing husband day after day when he deserves to have a loving, joyful wife who claims to love and serve the Lord). Then I saw the invitation to your free 7 day course and naturally turned toward your invite for a full 30 day rewire.
I know this was a really long message so I’m not even sure you’ll get a chance to read this but if you’re still here I just want to truly thank you from the bottom of my heart to leading me back to Christ with any of these motherhood/personal struggles, and to help me re-find myself, who I used to be pre-kids and who I want to be now for them (and hubby too). I truly feel my mind has been renewed and like I found the missing piece of the puzzle to actually enjoy motherhood again instead of just continuing to tell myself once I get out of the baby and toddler phase maybe I can find peace and joy again. What a sad notion to think I was just wanting to skip all past the beautiful early stages of my kids’ lives and couldn’t find the joy, magic and beauty in the NOW with them! I also wanted to share something else from you that really stuck with me- not to fear coming across as disingenuous just because you’ve been that touched out, burned out mom for so long. That you CAN decide to make a change and be changed NOW and have no fear about any of that being weird. I really needed to hear that part too. It was an invitation to fully embrace retraining my brain to be myself again and to be gentle and calm, happy and FUN again.
I just wanted to say we’re not even halfway through the course this month and there has already been a tremendous change in my attitude and literally everything around me… my husband can already see a dramatic change in me- he told me the other day that he doesn’t feel like he’s on “pins and needles” around me anymore when moments get intense with the kids or things start feeling a little hectic (like typical life with children is bound to do). And guess what? My wonderful, loving, handsome and amazing husband has been saying things to ME like “you’re so cute”, “you’re such a cute mom”, and calling me “beautiful” way more just in this past week than he has all year! So I know he not only sees the transformation but he feels it too because it’s creating more of an inclination in him to express adoration toward me again that I haven’t heard much of from him since we started having children and since in turn I then became a frantic, nervous ball of stress and defeat.
My children definitely feel a difference too… both of them are running up to me and throwing their arms around me for huge hugs WAY more often, saying the words “I love you, Mama” out of nowhere WAY more often, and even asking God for “Mama dreams” when they lay their sweet little heads down at night and say their prayers. They are laughing way more and are overall more playful because I’M laughing more and am more playful. Their behaviors and overall demeanor and emotions are even much milder now because they have a calm, rational, gentle mother who finally feels like her fun-loving, level-headed self again!
When I came across your channel a few years ago, I would take notes from your videos here and there but couldn’t quite grasp how to fully immerse myself and gear my everyday life around your teachings. Until I found myself truly snapping a couple of times at my poor, precious little toddlers (over silly, forgivable toddler things- like drawing on the wall w/ crayon and stringing a whole roll of toilet paper across the living room floor) and from that moment there I knew I HAD to make a change NOW and I was done going around in fight or flight and hyper-vigilant all the time. I also knew it was time when one day about a month ago, my husband got home from work and while I was changing my baby’s diaper on the floor in the living room when he bent down to kiss me, I broke down in tears saying “I hate this feeling so much… I feel like I can’t even enjoy my children or my motherhood right now. It’s. Just. So. Freakin. Hard. And I’m so so sooooo tired.”
Anyway, fast forward to not long afterward when I came across your post about children being little emotional barometers, that was my little a-ha moment that I should give you a closer listen. Because I knew I did NOT want to be setting a negative, “poor me, life sucks” tone in my household for my children! (Or in front of my amazing husband day after day when he deserves to have a loving, joyful wife who claims to love and serve the Lord). Then I saw the invitation to your free 7 day course and naturally turned toward your invite for a full 30 day rewire.
I know this was a really long message so I’m not even sure you’ll get a chance to read this but if you’re still here I just want to truly thank you from the bottom of my heart to leading me back to Christ with any of these motherhood/personal struggles, and to help me re-find myself, who I used to be pre-kids and who I want to be now for them (and hubby too). I truly feel my mind has been renewed and like I found the missing piece of the puzzle to actually enjoy motherhood again instead of just continuing to tell myself once I get out of the baby and toddler phase maybe I can find peace and joy again. What a sad notion to think I was just wanting to skip all past the beautiful early stages of my kids’ lives and couldn’t find the joy, magic and beauty in the NOW with them! I also wanted to share something else from you that really stuck with me- not to fear coming across as disingenuous just because you’ve been that touched out, burned out mom for so long. That you CAN decide to make a change and be changed NOW and have no fear about any of that being weird. I really needed to hear that part too. It was an invitation to fully embrace retraining my brain to be myself again and to be gentle and calm, happy and FUN again.
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Hello! I’m posting this here because it kind of feels like a win, to me at least. It’s more of a revelation that maybe many of you have already come to. But as I was doing my responsive a few moments ago, I was going through the healing affirmation and just started crying and it had hit me that these triggers and my symptoms to them, like the anxiety, anger, snapping, the urge too not keep my side of the street clean when I feel wronged, that these are all temptations. My response to these temptations (triggers/symptoms) determines if it becomes sin. I had never seen it that way.
I always felt so condemned that just being triggered and having symptoms was the sin or failure because to me a good Christian wouldn’t have them. So I would always be defeated and just respond to the triggers and symptoms from a mindset that I had already sinned or fallen. But somehow having this revelation of triggers and symptoms being temptations feels so freeing because I know exactly how to deal with a temptation which doesn’t mean I’ll be perfect but it just helps me to keep in mind in the heat of the moment that I’m being tempted and I’m either going to choose to give in and sin or walk in the spirit. It kind of holds me more accountable which I love because when I feel like I’m just a victim to something like these triggers it’s so much easier to give in to them and think this is just how i am and I can’t help it, it’s always been this way. Does that make sense? Hope this helps someone or sets someone else free as it has me!
Hello! I’m posting this here because it kind of feels like a win, to me at least. It’s more of a revelation that maybe many of you have already come to. But as I was doing my responsive a few moments ago, I was going through the healing affirmation and just started crying and it had hit me that these triggers and my symptoms to them, like the anxiety, anger, snapping, the urge too not keep my side of the street clean when I feel wronged, that these are all temptations. My response to these temptations (triggers/symptoms) determines if it becomes sin. I had never seen it that way.
I always felt so condemned that just being triggered and having symptoms was the sin or failure because to me a good Christian wouldn’t have them. So I would always be defeated and just respond to the triggers and symptoms from a mindset that I had already sinned or fallen. But somehow having this revelation of triggers and symptoms being temptations feels so freeing because I know exactly how to deal with a temptation which doesn’t mean I’ll be perfect but it just helps me to keep in mind in the heat of the moment that I’m being tempted and I’m either going to choose to give in and sin or walk in the spirit. It kind of holds me more accountable which I love because when I feel like I’m just a victim to something like these triggers it’s so much easier to give in to them and think this is just how i am and I can’t help it, it’s always been this way. Does that make sense? Hope this helps someone or sets someone else free as it has me!
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I am so thankful that I am seeing God’s hand in growing me and helping me to respond in a more God honoring way through this work and in surrendering my struggles to Him and resting in His great love for me and my family. This course has helped me to recognize how much I fear man instead of God and how I am relying on them to determine my worth and value. So when I feel like they are putting me down (which lots of the time is not true) or that they think my opinions don’t matter (which also is not true a lot of the time) I get triggered. I handled things a lot better when my kids were younger (I still had plenty of issues) because I could “control” things so much better and I could discipline them and get them to listen and they didn’t have so many of their own thoughts and opinions like they do when they are older. Also, they were so affectionate and would say the sweetest things so I would hear lots of how much they loved me. And my husband was not operating out of a stressed out system so I had more of his support as well. With my youngest being 15 and the rest now graduated and adults but still living at home I don’t get that same kind of affirmation and I can’t “control” them like I used to. But thankfully God led me to Kyrie’s videos & then this course so I could actually start identifying these root issues and start working on them with the Lord. I am so grateful Kyrie for your ministry! Amidst these wonderful wins I have had plenty of resorting to my old habits but I am so thankful that God is allowing me to see these glimpses of a better way, a holy way, a peace that can come only through Him.
- Last night my daughter (she’s 18) made a funny comment that was directed at me and I laughed in response (this was a natural reaction too – I didn’t have to restrain myself or anything). She commented that she was glad I reacted that way because it can be dangerous to say those types of comments to me because she never knows how I will take it/ respond.
- The other day my daughter (she’s 25) reminded me that I should be thinking more positively about a particular situation and I didn’t get offended but told her that I was appreciative for the reminder and I smiled at her & gave her an appreciative hug. Again, this was a natural response in that moment and she seemed surprised by it which then made me think about it and realize, sadly, how out of character that was for me (especially with her because she is a different personality than me, is more blunt, is the oldest so she has more opinions, and communicates differently so I misunderstand her a lot)
- There’s been a number of other situations like these where I normally would have been offended & responded harshly but I didn’t react and just responded calmly. With these situations, I wasn’t “trying” to respond appropriately it just came naturally. And the interesting thing is that afterwards the situation would come to my mind and I would be getting offended then & wonder why I didn’t “give them what they deserved” or some not great thinking like that & then the Holy Spirit would remind me that “No, that’s not true – you chose the God honoring way even if I really was being mistreated). Then I would think how in the world did I respond appropriately in that moment when I am still thinking inappropriately later. I am assuming it is partially the devil trying to lure me back in to those same ODPs as well as my brain trying to understand why I am not doing things the way I usually do.
- My husband apologized to me this morning, out of his own volition, after he had been irritated & harsh with me last night. I had started to get offended/ irritated with him but chose to leave (which he had asked me to do) instead of getting angry and responding in kind; which is what I wanted to do. My thoughts were starting to spiral but I took them captive (multiple times) and “flooded” my mind with things I am thankful for about him and reframed the situation to one where I know he is stressed by a lot of things and it’s not my job to get justice but to support him during this difficult time he is going through and how I would appreciate him having grace for me when I am struggling.
I had intended to share the first win I have listed and as I was writing it in my journal the Lord brought to my mind all these other wins and it was so encouraging!!❤️ God is so good!
I am so thankful that I am seeing God’s hand in growing me and helping me to respond in a more God honoring way through this work and in surrendering my struggles to Him and resting in His great love for me and my family. This course has helped me to recognize how much I fear man instead of God and how I am relying on them to determine my worth and value. So when I feel like they are putting me down (which lots of the time is not true) or that they think my opinions don’t matter (which also is not true a lot of the time) I get triggered. I handled things a lot better when my kids were younger (I still had plenty of issues) because I could “control” things so much better and I could discipline them and get them to listen and they didn’t have so many of their own thoughts and opinions like they do when they are older. Also, they were so affectionate and would say the sweetest things so I would hear lots of how much they loved me. And my husband was not operating out of a stressed out system so I had more of his support as well. With my youngest being 15 and the rest now graduated and adults but still living at home I don’t get that same kind of affirmation and I can’t “control” them like I used to. But thankfully God led me to Kyrie’s videos & then this course so I could actually start identifying these root issues and start working on them with the Lord. I am so grateful Kyrie for your ministry! Amidst these wonderful wins I have had plenty of resorting to my old habits but I am so thankful that God is allowing me to see these glimpses of a better way, a holy way, a peace that can come only through Him.
- Last night my daughter (she’s 18) made a funny comment that was directed at me and I laughed in response (this was a natural reaction too – I didn’t have to restrain myself or anything). She commented that she was glad I reacted that way because it can be dangerous to say those types of comments to me because she never knows how I will take it/ respond.
- The other day my daughter (she’s 25) reminded me that I should be thinking more positively about a particular situation and I didn’t get offended but told her that I was appreciative for the reminder and I smiled at her & gave her an appreciative hug. Again, this was a natural response in that moment and she seemed surprised by it which then made me think about it and realize, sadly, how out of character that was for me (especially with her because she is a different personality than me, is more blunt, is the oldest so she has more opinions, and communicates differently so I misunderstand her a lot)
- There’s been a number of other situations like these where I normally would have been offended & responded harshly but I didn’t react and just responded calmly. With these situations, I wasn’t “trying” to respond appropriately it just came naturally. And the interesting thing is that afterwards the situation would come to my mind and I would be getting offended then & wonder why I didn’t “give them what they deserved” or some not great thinking like that & then the Holy Spirit would remind me that “No, that’s not true – you chose the God honoring way even if I really was being mistreated). Then I would think how in the world did I respond appropriately in that moment when I am still thinking inappropriately later. I am assuming it is partially the devil trying to lure me back in to those same ODPs as well as my brain trying to understand why I am not doing things the way I usually do.
- My husband apologized to me this morning, out of his own volition, after he had been irritated & harsh with me last night. I had started to get offended/ irritated with him but chose to leave (which he had asked me to do) instead of getting angry and responding in kind; which is what I wanted to do. My thoughts were starting to spiral but I took them captive (multiple times) and “flooded” my mind with things I am thankful for about him and reframed the situation to one where I know he is stressed by a lot of things and it’s not my job to get justice but to support him during this difficult time he is going through and how I would appreciate him having grace for me when I am struggling.
I had intended to share the first win I have listed and as I was writing it in my journal the Lord brought to my mind all these other wins and it was so encouraging!!❤️ God is so good!
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I have been dealing with exhaustion (worse than my newborn/baby exhaustion) for almost a year (and yes I’ve gotten myself checked ☺️).
HOWEVER, the last couple of days it’s not been taking over my mind (I’m so exhausted) or my body!!
Like yesterday we went grocery shopping, which is a bit of an all day event for us we live 2.5hrs from the nearest Costco. And when getting home at night I happily put everything away and wasn’t totally wiped like I had before. I wasn’t on edge with my tone with the kids…none of that exhausted behavior!
I’m SO thankful!! It’s still surreal to notice this difference! ❤️
I have been dealing with exhaustion (worse than my newborn/baby exhaustion) for almost a year (and yes I’ve gotten myself checked ☺️).
HOWEVER, the last couple of days it’s not been taking over my mind (I’m so exhausted) or my body!!
Like yesterday we went grocery shopping, which is a bit of an all day event for us we live 2.5hrs from the nearest Costco. And when getting home at night I happily put everything away and wasn’t totally wiped like I had before. I wasn’t on edge with my tone with the kids…none of that exhausted behavior!
I’m SO thankful!! It’s still surreal to notice this difference! ❤️
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I am just in awe of God’s goodness and faithfulness! I’ve been struggling with a lot of anxiety and panic over the last couple months and last night I had to speak in front of a large group, I was so anxious but as I was waiting my turn, I used the tools I’ve learned in the course and it made such a difference!! God gave me so much peace and I’m so thankful for this course! I had been using sessions for this night and when it came down to I was actually excited about it. Such a win!! I’m so grateful God led me to this course and the work of renewing my mind with His truth!!
I am just in awe of God’s goodness and faithfulness! I’ve been struggling with a lot of anxiety and panic over the last couple months and last night I had to speak in front of a large group, I was so anxious but as I was waiting my turn, I used the tools I’ve learned in the course and it made such a difference!! God gave me so much peace and I’m so thankful for this course! I had been using sessions for this night and when it came down to I was actually excited about it. Such a win!! I’m so grateful God led me to this course and the work of renewing my mind with His truth!!
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I spent one day watching all of the videos for the REWIRE process, learning the formulas and taking lots of notes. I’ve done about 4-5 sessions over the last few days… Mostly just trying to become familiar with the process. One of them I did on my own while taking a shower, one I did laying in the grass, one I did laying on the couch with my daughter and then I did a 15-minute one this morning based on one that Kyrie shared yesterday. I also did one while doing the dishes. I’m just kind of trying different things and trying to just overall become familiar.
Well, today after doing the 20 minute session laying on the couch with my daughter because she really wanted to be with me and I really wanted to fit in a session, I was kind of surprised when I got up and although I felt extremely relaxed, one little annoyance after the next piled and piled and piled on top of me and I was so surprised that within 10 minutes I was suddenly feeling on edge.
In that moment I knew I should do a responsive formula before I reacted in my frustration/overwhelm that I was feeling but instead I pushed through for another few minutes and tried to complete the task that I wanted to do, wrongfully believing that I just wanted to finish my tasks so I would feel better. (Meanwhile the kids are seeing that I am on edge which is not good.)
I knew this was wrong because the Lord just showed me yesterday that it’s all about stewarding the time I have and not completing a list. If my focus is on stewarding “my” time for his Glory then I am not looking to complete my tasks in order to feel peace. I’m looking to Him!
Finally I decided to grab my notes and go to my bathroom and just try the responsive formula so I could see what would happen. I had no idea what I was going to say and even that was a little stressful in and of itself because this is not a habit for me yet.
I grabbed my notes where I had written out a sample of a responsive formula just kind of in the moment when I was watching one of the videos and it was incredible!
You guys! I literally walked away feeling joyful and genuinely rested and like I could easily just choose to serve my family with joy that I actually felt in my heart and I didn’t need what I thought I frantically needed in the moments before I did the formula.
Thank you Kyrie!!!! 😭😭😭
I spent one day watching all of the videos for the REWIRE process, learning the formulas and taking lots of notes. I’ve done about 4-5 sessions over the last few days… Mostly just trying to become familiar with the process. One of them I did on my own while taking a shower, one I did laying in the grass, one I did laying on the couch with my daughter and then I did a 15-minute one this morning based on one that Kyrie shared yesterday. I also did one while doing the dishes. I’m just kind of trying different things and trying to just overall become familiar.
Well, today after doing the 20 minute session laying on the couch with my daughter because she really wanted to be with me and I really wanted to fit in a session, I was kind of surprised when I got up and although I felt extremely relaxed, one little annoyance after the next piled and piled and piled on top of me and I was so surprised that within 10 minutes I was suddenly feeling on edge.
In that moment I knew I should do a responsive formula before I reacted in my frustration/overwhelm that I was feeling but instead I pushed through for another few minutes and tried to complete the task that I wanted to do, wrongfully believing that I just wanted to finish my tasks so I would feel better. (Meanwhile the kids are seeing that I am on edge which is not good.)
I knew this was wrong because the Lord just showed me yesterday that it’s all about stewarding the time I have and not completing a list. If my focus is on stewarding “my” time for his Glory then I am not looking to complete my tasks in order to feel peace. I’m looking to Him!
Finally I decided to grab my notes and go to my bathroom and just try the responsive formula so I could see what would happen. I had no idea what I was going to say and even that was a little stressful in and of itself because this is not a habit for me yet.
I grabbed my notes where I had written out a sample of a responsive formula just kind of in the moment when I was watching one of the videos and it was incredible!
You guys! I literally walked away feeling joyful and genuinely rested and like I could easily just choose to serve my family with joy that I actually felt in my heart and I didn’t need what I thought I frantically needed in the moments before I did the formula.
Thank you Kyrie!!!! 😭😭😭
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i praise God for the incredible wisdom He has given you through your testimony and the way you’re working so hard to get it into the hands of others. this ministry is desperately needed and valuable. starting your REWIRE challenge has already brought lightbulb moments i’ve been fighting to find for over 5 years. praise God. thank you!
i praise God for the incredible wisdom He has given you through your testimony and the way you’re working so hard to get it into the hands of others. this ministry is desperately needed and valuable. starting your REWIRE challenge has already brought lightbulb moments i’ve been fighting to find for over 5 years. praise God. thank you!
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I’ve been a full THS student since January and have had an incredible transformation through my time here. No more migraines, loving thoughts toward my children, no more neck pain waking up, skin clearing, weight loss, gut healing (yay for eating dairy!)….the list goes on! But this summer was a season a change and I felt little things creeping back in and have struggled. Just three days into this challenge, (with the first two my brain saying, this is silly why am I doing this, this won’t work… even though I know it does…) I already notice the shift in my headspace and my body relaxing again!! I just wanted to come on here and say, especially to the new students, God is so good and works miracles through this course! The resistance can feel so intense and overwhelming and you will notice a million ways that you never knew your body was telling you that you were stressed, but you CAN heal! Hang in there! Ignore the resistance and go through the motions! God be praised!
I’ve been a full THS student since January and have had an incredible transformation through my time here. No more migraines, loving thoughts toward my children, no more neck pain waking up, skin clearing, weight loss, gut healing (yay for eating dairy!)….the list goes on! But this summer was a season a change and I felt little things creeping back in and have struggled. Just three days into this challenge, (with the first two my brain saying, this is silly why am I doing this, this won’t work… even though I know it does…) I already notice the shift in my headspace and my body relaxing again!! I just wanted to come on here and say, especially to the new students, God is so good and works miracles through this course! The resistance can feel so intense and overwhelming and you will notice a million ways that you never knew your body was telling you that you were stressed, but you CAN heal! Hang in there! Ignore the resistance and go through the motions! God be praised!
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